I can’t remember where I saw or read that, but it’s very true.
Today, while sorting through some stuff, I turned up a load of things and I re-read them. And by looking back, I gained perspective.
It was interesting.
I saw things with a fresh eye. Not one clouded by the overwhelming emotion of the time, yet with the knowledge of what happened. There was no seeing what I might have wanted to see. It was all just………. there.
There was a depth of distress that wasn’t mine, and that speaks volumes.
What actually occured, should never have happened. Had it been anyone else, it could have been overturned.
But knowing what I know now, I am glad it wasn’t.
It is all someone else’s problem now.
And I have no regrets.